Does a scratchy throat and stuffy nose make you want to sleep for the rest of the day?
Remember: tomorrow could be worse!
Does the howling wind rattling your house have you burying your head back under the covers?
Remember: tomorrow could be worse!
That’s right, folks. You can forget all those other motivational mantras. YOLO? No, bro. Carpe diem? Crappy idiom. The only words of wisdom you need are these: tomorrow could be worse.
That thought will inspire you to get out of bed, showered, and into your car because you only have a finite number of sick days, and can you really afford to use one today because, remember, tomorrow could be worse?
That thought will spur you on as you shovel the knee-deep snow while trying to get your car unstuck from middle of your driveway. It will keep you shoveling even though your stomach is growling because you skipped breakfast, the cold air is making you cough more, and your back is starting to hurt.
Sure, tomorrow could be worse isn’t foolproof. After you get your car unstuck and then stuck again at the end of the driveway, you may say to your husband, “I’ll push while you drive the car back into the garage because, screw this, I am NOT going to work.”
Tomorrow could be worse might be forgotten while you email your boss announcing that you can’t get your car out of driveway and won’t make it in. The phrase will be a distance memory as you change out of your wet pants and crawl back into bed, grateful that your toddler is still asleep.
But never fear: your tenacious husband fully embraces the tomorrow could be worse philosophy. He’ll save you from weak-willed desire for slumber by loudly searching for his hat and gloves, opening the garage door and starting the car. When you get out of bed to find out why he is making all this noise, he’ll remind you that milk is on sale today, so he is going to get the other car out of the garage and go buy some because the weather tomorrow could be worse. He’ll have you guiltily donning your own boots and winter gear to assist with snow removal only to find him sitting in the car already in the street.
Upon seeing him, the words will flood back into your mind: tomorrow could be worse. These words will steel you as you go back inside, change your clothes, and head off to work once more. You’ll remember that tomorrow could be worse as you slowly navigate icy roads, strain to see through the swirling snow, and feel your compact car being pushed around by the gusts of wind that have sent the temperatures below zero.
When you walk into your office, your startled coworker will say, “Oh, you made it in.” This is the perfect opportunity to introduce her to your reason for getting out of bed each day.
“I figured I better. You never know: tomorrow could be worse.”
Tomorrow could be better, too.
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Yes, it could be. I had to write this out to think about how de-motivational my train of thought actually was.
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Yeah, I’m in that state of mind, too, sadly.
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I really like it. Tomorrow can always be better. Thanks for sharing this!
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I fear that I am a little bit like your hubby. I should look into myself about this a little more. Great post.
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Having just read your dumbass vs. bad ass post, I can understand why you are making the comparison. Sometimes it’s good to be stubborn. You just have to pick the proper times.
Work hasn’t been too bad. I managed to buy milk and go to the library, so if tomorrow is worse, at least we will be well-provisioned.
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I do wonder how much worse can tomorrow really be…and I find out the hard way.
I do like this piece though 🙂
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I think I have a different conversation with myself in my head…a constant running thought of, “it’s going to get better, it’s going to get better, look, it’s getting better.” We all gotta do what we gotta do to get the car on the road and pointed at work. And don’t forget the milk. 😀
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Bought it on the way to work since I was already late.
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Ugh, I’ve been there. I’ve had days when I was tempted to just call in sick, but sick days are finite. So you just gotta charge on full speed ahead.
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Husband usually have a simple philosophy to life. My husbands comes up with some great one liners too. I can’t remember one right now; so I will have to listen out for one and blog about it. LOL I enjoyed reading your funny blog today.
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You have given me my mission statement. Every freaking time I’m going to take a sick or vacation day I think umm tomorrow could be worse!!
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I’m sure you understand that I can’t only think of myself. I have to think of “what if my son gets sick?” Plus, I need vacation time for IEPs, school visits, field trips, etc. Mama ain’t got time for being sick herself.
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Tomorrow will pretty much be the same. I guess it’s more if you’re better or worse. 🙂
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Ugh–tomorrow BETTER not be worse!
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My tomorrow ended up being better. Still have a scratchy throat, but I didn’t get stuck in the driveway. I’ll count that as a win.
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Sadly, I never think that far ahead, but maybe I should. Then perhaps I wouldn’t end up being so overwhelmed…
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But thinking ahead to all the horrible things that can happen isn’t such a good idea, either. Makes me think of your post last week about all the anxious “what ifs” you conjured as a child.
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Letting the cares of one day fill our mind is the best course of action. We certainly are not promised tomorrow and that should drive us to only look forward to what we have going on at that time. Should I say, because we all wonder about the future.
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If tomorrow could be worse then I’d stay in bed until the day after that. But if what Craig Ferguson tell us is true, that “Tomorrow’s just your future yesterday,” then I’ll just wait until yesterday arrives to get up.
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I think you’ve talked me into focusing on today.
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My new mantra!
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Lol. This made me think of the movie Young Frankenstein, where Igor says “Could be worse–could be raining!” I’ll think of you tomorrow, but I hope that it’s not worse, but better.
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It was better, but only thanks to the attitude adjustment I got from writing this.
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Hmm, I’m not sure how I feel about this mantra. But I do get the need to save sick days for completely unavoidable events.
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Are you saying this doesn’t give you a warm, fuzzy feeling? Not feeling inspired in the least. Hmm. I might need to rethink this. 😉
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Wow. I’m speechless. I don’t want tomorrow to maybe be worse. I prefer, “Tomorrow will be a better day.” Well-written though.
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I realize that I made it sound like my husband really does think this way. He was actually being literal as in “the weather tomorrow is forecasted to be worse, so we should stock up today.” It’s my warped brain that thinks the sky is falling.
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You definitely need a sense of humor in this life! I’m glad to hear tomorrow was better. 🙂 My husband calls me a jinx because I always say surely tomorrow can’t be worse!
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Hey, that is a great selling point for my mantra-guaranteed not to jinx yourself!
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the fact that tomorrow could be worse is all the reason I need to try and have fun today.
(I should have stayed in bed…
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Great, inspired writing, as always. Yes, tomorrow could be worse!
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If I said to myself that “tomorrow could be worse”, I’d probably not be able to get out of bed tomorrow. Oh wait – but then it would be today. Cool. I’m good then. 😉 Great post!
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Ha! OK, it’s possible (just possible) that this is a negative spin on the seize the day stuff. But from where I’m standing, it also seems like a good way to quit feeling sorry for yourself. If it could get worse, then enjoy where you’re at!
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See, I knew this would catch on!
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This was a good post. Totally loved your sense of humor and that last line was awesome! Yeah I have to admit that is one of my mantras.
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Thanks for seeing the humor. I’m not really a funny writer, so I worried that people would think I was being serious.
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Um, I think you’ve been reading too much Dr. Seuss in the polar vortex…
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Or not enough . . .
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I love this. My “kick my rear into gear” mantra these days, is a twist on your refrain. Tomorrow (or next week, next year) you will be older. I realize the things I complain about today, I’ll have even more reasons to complain the older I get. Enjoy each day. Tomorrow is unknown. Hope your day is going well.
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Stop thinking about tomorrow.
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Isn’t that a line from a song? Oh no it’s “Don’t Stop, thinking about tomorrow.” I think you’re on the right track. At least two times in the last month, I really wanted to stay home, but I thought, we could have a real blizzard instead of howling winds and -20 windchills. So I showed up. One of the paralegals I work for took a vacation day. But after I arrived at work, I thought, why waste a vacation day on such miserable weather? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8arvEzHsA8
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If you stay in bed with the sniffles on Friday and you have the weekend off and you get paid on Thursday, then you have three days to recover before the dreaded Monday!!! Yep! That was me last Friday, I woke up sounding like a bullfrog with laryngitis and I have to talk on the phone on and off during the day, so great day to stay in bed!!!
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I’m so glad I went to work that day because, even tomorrow was better, a week later the weather really was worse.
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