Despite my best efforts to deny it, yesterday was the last day of preschool for Philip for the year. This morning, there were no classes. Instead, students and their families gathered at a city park for an end-of-year picnic.
Philip had a great time even though he had been up since 3:30 am. If he had been better rested, we would have stayed longer to let him enjoy playing in the tot lot, making bubbles, jumping in the bounce house and hanging out with his classmates, teachers and other staff.
My mom joined us, which was a good thing since she was able to take more pictures than me. I won’t post all of the pictures here. Instead, I’ve selected one that represents all of the progress Philip has made since he began preschool almost two years ago.
Back then, he cried at the dolls. He cried when they took him to the bookmobile. He cried when they tried to get him to wash his hands. He cried any time he encountered something new.
Gradually, gently, at both home and at preschool, we have been working on reducing Philip’s anxiety in new situations. While a bit of caution is certainly valuable, we all want to make sure that Philip experiences and interacts with a variety of activities, places and things. I just want him to have the opportunity to choose not to do something again rather than having fear prevent him from missing out on experiences he might enjoy.
That’s why, when Philip had the opportunity to look at and pet a variety of farm animals brought to the park by the local FFA (Future Farmer’s of America), we seized it. And when one of the students asked him, “Do you want to sit on the donkey?”, we let him try.
And he didn’t cry.
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This does sum it all up doesn’t it?! Progress is awesome. Congrats to Phillip!
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This is one of those things that truly warms my heart. I love it when J takes steps like this one, and I am immensely happy for you and Philip…it is going to be a good summer, you’ll see. Next school year…even more successes and wonderful progress. π
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Awesome! Good for Philip. Did he enjoy the ride?
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I think so. He was getting tired at this point, so his enthusiasm was subdued.
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Woohoo! What a great step. π I love watching children grow, make progress – how rewarding!
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What a great photo. Progress! Its fabulous isnt it? Congrats on a new landmark.
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Hooray for Philip and his patient mommy and teachers! My 4yo’s last day of pre-K is Tuesday and I’m freaking out. What am I gonna do with her all summer?!?!? π
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Yay for conquering fears! Maybe Philip will continue to be interested in animals. Enjoy your summer.
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Aw, that’s a cute photo. Must have been a great experience for him.
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Sounds like a great day π
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It sounds like you found a great preschool for Philip! I teach 3/4 year olds, and our end of the year picnic is Thursday. I love watching the kids’ progress throughout the year. It’s one of my favorite things about being a teacher!
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What a beautifully written piece. We had a great preschool, too, and it makes all the difference on getting them ready for the nest big step.
Stacy
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